The print copy of Parenting As Adoptees is here!  Click here to buy your copy today!  And if you’re in Minnesota, come to the reading at The Loft Literary Century on Thursday, December 6th, 7:00 pm. The event is cosponsored by The Loft Literary Center, and MCed by the talented Katie Hae Leo.

Date & Time: Thursday, December 6, 2012 (7:00 pm)

Location: The Loft Literary Center, 1011 Washington, Ave. S., Minneapolis, MN 55415

Join authors of the anthology Parenting As Adoptees as they read and discuss their respective chapters.

Shannon Gibney, Hei Kyong Kim, JaeRan Kim, Mary Mason, and Sandy White Hawk.  Welcome and closing statements by Adam Chau and Kevin Ost-Vollmers

About Parenting As Adoptees:

Through fourteen chapters, the authors of Parenting As Adoptees give readers a glimpse into a pivotal phase in life that touches the experiences of many domestic and international adoptees—that of parenting. The authors, who are all adoptees from various walks of life, intertwine their personal narratives and professional experiences, and the results of their efforts are insightful, emotive, and powerful.

This event is cosponsored by The Loft Literary Center, and free and open to the public.

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On Wednesday, October 10th, 8:00 pm CST, Adam Chau and Kevin Ost-Vollmers, co-editors of Parenting As Adoptees, will host a live broadcast roundtable discussion.  Susan Branco Alvarado, Stephanie Kripa Cooper-Lewter, Astrid Dabbeni, JaeRan Kim, and Sandy White Hawk – five of the writers in the anthology – will talk about and read from their chapters.

Viewers can watch the conversation at Kevin Ost-Vollmers’ Google+ feed or here at the Parenting As Adoptees website.

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Hardcopies forthcoming.

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Barnes & Noble/Nook and hardcopies are forthcoming.

Parenting As Adoptees, with contributions by: Bert Ballard, Susan Branco Alvarado, Stephanie Kripa Cooper-Lewter, Lorial Crowder, Shannon Gibney, Astrid Dabbeni, Mark Hagland, Hei Kyong Kim, JaeRan Kim, Jennifer Lauck, Mary Mason, Robert O’Connor, John Raible, and Sandy White Hawk.

Click here to read what reviewers have to say about the book.

Parenting As Adoptees, with contributions by: Bert Ballard, Susan Branco Alvarado, Stephanie Kripa Cooper-Lewter, Lorial Crowder, Shannon Gibney, Astrid Dabbeni, Mark Hagland, Hei Kyong Kim, JaeRan Kim, Jennifer Lauck, Mary Mason, Robert O’Connor, John Raible, and Sandy White Hawk.

What adoptees are saying about the book:

“This is an eye-opening collection of brave essays by parents who shine light on the challenges and joys of raising children.  When the adoptee becomes the parent, the winding journey takes a new focus, and this book of options and insights captures the importance of parenting as a vital part of our equation… It is illuminating and full of love.  Read it soon.” – Lee Herrick, author of This Many Miles from Desire and the forthcoming Gardening Secrets of the Dead

“This book is an excellent resource for adoptees who are becoming parents and those who are traveling along that journey of parenting.” – Carolyn Scholl, President of AKASoCal, the adoptee association in Southern California; advisory council member of the Korean Adoptee Adoptive Parent Network (KAAN)

“Rarely has the experience of parenting as an adopted person been laid to bear so candidly and vividly. The authors provide a provocative, touching and, at times visceral and unyielding, invitation into their lives as they unearth and piece together the magnitude of parenting when it is interwoven with their adoption narrative. It is a prolific piece that encapsulates the rawness that adoption can bring from unknown histories, abandonment, grief, and identity reconciliation which ultimately reveals the power of resiliency and self-determination as a universal hallmark in parenting.” – Melanie Chung-Sherman, LCSW, LCPAA, PLLC

“This is an important book that (finally!) cracks open the important conversation on how adoptees parent. How we approach becoming parents, how we may recognize ourselves in our children whether they are adopted or not, how we bond with our children, and how we help them negotiate the complicated spaces of family and society. It explores how adoptees can be profoundly transformed by entering this stage of human life, how we find ourselves in uncharted territories as the radical—and often traumatic—differences that shaped our own childhoods morph into unknown challenges with our own children.” -Sun Yung Shin is the author of two poetry collections Rough and Savage and Skirt Full of Black, a bilingual book for children Cooper’s Lesson, and is a co-editor of Outsiders Within: Writing on Transracial Adoption. She edits the literary journal This Spectral Evidence.

“‘Adoption as a lifetime event’ has been given much lip service. Thankfully, this book opens concrete, meaningful discussion on the lifelong impact of adoption, an important aspect of which is its effect on parenting as an adoptee. This must-read book shows why quality post-adoption services are needed not only for adult adoptees – but also their children, partners, and adoptive parents who become grandparents. An enlightening read for adoptees and the people who love them.” -Jane Jeong Trenka, author of The Language of Blood and Fugitive Visions; co-editor of Outsiders Within: Writing on Transracial Adoption 

Long overdue, this book is a gift. It is filled with hard earned pearls of wisdom. The pages are heaps of courage full of raw honesty. Adopted people are sure to see themselves reflected in the words. Adoptive parents are sure to learn from the experiences shared so eloquently. Julie Young, Member of the Board and Author of the “Heart and Seoul” Column and Editor for

“Parenting As Adoptees contributes and sits strongly alongside books by non-adoptees that look at issues to do with ‘the family’, race, ethnicity and migration.  As such, this book should appeal to a broad audience interested in these various fields of inquiry. It also fits well within contemporary literature on adoption, and should be held proudly alongside other genres represented by adoptee authors. – Dr. Indigo Willing

“Being an adoptee on a perpetual search for good literature myself, I identify with the daunting task of finding and selecting books.  An incredible strength of this anthology is the diversity, not only of the authors, their experiences, and their perspectives, but of the writing styles and intertexuality within many of the individual essays.  Someone reading the “Adoptees as Parents” anthology is likely to find at least one author whom they can identify with and can learn something from.  Readers are also likely to put down the book with other literature, research topics, and concepts in mind to continue learning and growing within the adoption experience.” Amanda Woolston of The Declassified Adoptee, Founder and Director of Pennsylvania Adoptee Rights, Board Member of the Adoptee Rights Coalition, founder and editor of the blog Lost Daughters, and editor of Land of Gazillion Adoptees.  

“There are too few adult adoptee voices reaching the kind of audience they must in order to challenge widespread misconceptions and stereotypes about adoption, and adopted individuals in particular. Parenting As Adoptees is a book of brutally honest and well-crafted essays that help to fill a gap in the traditional adoption narrative by specifically focusing on the parenting experiences of those whose experiences of parenthood and family were changed and shaped by adoption. This is a challenging book, offering frank discussions about transracial and transcultural adoption, adoptee grief and loss, the need for empathetic parenting, and what it means to lose and find one’s roots. It is an especially valuable book for those hoping to be strong allies to their adopted children and adopted friends.” – Nicole Soojung Callahan, transracial adoptee, contributor to Somebody’s Child: Stories About Adoption

“Parenting As Adoptees is a book like no other. To read it was like reading the conjoining of great minds, souls and reflections of life as someone who has lived in-between. Each essayist bravely revealed the inner depths that adoption has affected them at the most vulnerable moment in a person’s life, when they become the sole proprietor of another life. I loved the diversity of the pieces, the weaving of research within the individual experiences and the immense risk all of the writers took in explaining how parenting has affected who they are in the context of being an adopted person. Gone are the children, now we finally get to know how the lifelong experience of adoption truly impacts a person.” – Joy Lieberthal Rho, LCSW, Korean adoptee